Thursday, February 24, 2011

Plans

As many of you know, though some may not... I plan to birth naturally. Unmedicated. We plan to go as "natural" through the entire parenthood experience as we possibly can. This includes cloth diapers, glass bottles, breastfeeding, and homemade baby food. Let me tell you, it's not been easy to reveal this fact to many of my peers. I almost always get the "You're crazy" look or someone voices their opinion. I cannot tell you how often I have been informed that I will change my mind when the moment comes. 

These opinions are usually followed by horror stories of the pain, the complications, and the benefits of drugs. Well, I do not buy into the overly medicated opinion of the majority. I have spent most of my life living naturally, and am HEALTHY because of it. My pregnancy has been completely uncomplicated, and pretty comfortable for the most part. I do miss the support I could have had living back in Missouri. (Especially Liz and her Mom-- some of my primary natural-living supporters and teachers...)

I am opting for cloth diapers and I realize the work that goes into them. I realize that I will have to empty poop and soak and wash them, then reuse them. I understand that many people today are not interested in that extra work, however I also understand that I cannot-in good conscious- put so many non-biodegradable disposable diapers. I do not like to consume products myself out of plastic containers-- so why would I use plastic for my child? Therefore, we are opting for glass bottles. 

I believe that pain is a perceived thing. I believe in mind over matter, and will utilize what I've learned through my birthing plans and instructions and education. I believe in my body's ability to safely deliver the baby with minimal discomfort and without complications.

The purpose of this note is not to rub my beliefs into anyone else's life-- everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and decisions. 
I do wish to ask everyone around me to be supportive and respect my choices. I am grateful to have wonderful friends and family, and would like to include them throughout my birth process, however I intend to only include positive thinking and encouraging minds into the relaxed, natural birth and lifestyle I plan. 

1 comment:

  1. A friend of mine here in MI makes a lot of her daughter's baby food; do you need/want any recipes? I could ask Ash to send me some things, if you'd like.

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